Your reading clearly indicates that the decision to leave the dating apps is not only justified but necessary. The journey began with the boundless optimism of The Fool—you were ready for new experiences and approached connection with an open heart and spontaneity. However, you now sit squarely in the energy of the Two of Swords, feeling an intense emotional impasse. You are paralyzed, perhaps overwhelmed by the options, or equally, avoiding the emotional effort required to make a true change. Quitting the apps resolves this stalemate, freeing up the mental energy that has been focused on weighing poor alternatives.

The Universe is not guiding you to a specific geographical spot like a bookstore or a hiking trail; it is guiding you toward a specific internal state. The cards suggest the 'location' of your next significant connection will be found within the sphere of your personal growth and passion. This is directly related to the energy required by the Nine of Wands. The universe wants you to engage in activities that require persistence, focus, and a slight push outside your comfort zone—perhaps a difficult class, a demanding creative project, or deep professional development. It is in this resilient, focused state that your vibrational energy will shift and attract the connection you seek.

The Nine of Wands in your future position is a powerful indicator of resilience, courage, and establishing firm boundaries. This card acts as both a warning and a promise: the connection is coming, but first, you must pass a 'test of faith.' This often means enduring a period of necessary solitude or focusing strictly on self-care, refusing to lower your standards or rush the process. The path forward is about building up your energetic shield and ensuring that when this person arrives, they are meeting the most tenacious and self-assured version of you. Your future connection will appreciate and respect the boundaries you’ve worked hard to put in place. Trust that the universe is steering you towards meeting this person when you are fully prepared and protected.